Let’s again focus on first sentence: English is a language and language is not something which people should be judged on.
Moreover it is just like any other native language.
It’s just we try to learn English by grammar, by writing, or by learning; while we actually need to practice it just like we practiced our native languages.
Starting with being kids, we all started speaking words, then phrases, later on simple sentences, and now we can give a speech in our first languages.
We just have to stay with same pattern for learning English as a language.
Speaking English now a days is a status symbol so there is a great need to speak English fluently and this could happen only when you focus on English language and for that you need someone reliable who can help u like anything.